One In, One Out

Holidays, birthdays, graduations, and the end of school can bring many new possessions into our homes via gift bags.  We really do love gifts and the kindness behind them.   For people committed to decluttering, however, how do we handle the influx?

Consider a one in, one out philosophy.  If you have whittled down a room and suddenly have more that needs to be stored, see if the new can replace something you've had a long time.  If not, and the new gifts aren't really anything you can use or love, consider the new fad of re-gifting.  Just because something is a gift, you don't HAVE to keep it.

"But what if the giver finds out?"  There are a couple possible scenarios:
1.  The giver will get mad or hurt and never give you another gift
2.  The giver will be more likely to get you an experience gift next time or just a thoughtful note.  A donation to a charity in your name might be something they do as well.

I really don't ever want to hurt anyone.  Another option is to keep the gift for awhile and then make a decision on it.  You also can be creative with the gift and use it in a place you may not have considered.  Can an extra tote be kept in the car for shopping?  The wind chime could be hung for decor somewhere inside the house?  You can also give it a home for a limited time frame so it's noticed if the giver visits; later you can donate it elsewhere.

Such a joyous event as receiving gifts shouldn't be stressful, but to people who are trying to unload excess items, sometimes it is tough.  Always be gracious and then be creative with your new items.  In the times between events, make it known you are paring down, or let your wish list or favorite charity get out there.  Again, be thankful, and with YOUR gift giving, try to consider these ideas for your loved ones.